Sex, Couples and the Integration of Somatic Interventions – The Path to Safety, Connection and Resolution – Deborah J Fox (Digital Seminar)

Sex, Couples and the Integration of Somatic Interventions – The Path to Safety, Connection and Resolution – Deborah J Fox (Digital Seminar)

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There is no conversation worth having if the nervous system isn’t in a “settledenough” state.

The frustrations of working with couples can be often feel overwhelming. Couples who easily become angry and defensive toward each other, or emotionally shutdown in session can make therapy unrewarding – for clinician and client alike. If you spend too much time being devoted to dealing with those reactions – with little time left to address the concerns that brought them into therapy, then this seminar has a solution to your problems!

This seminar with couples’ therapist Deborah Fox, MSW, LISCW, will teach you how to use the natural workings of the autonomic nervous system to help couples engage more effectively in session.

And from then on, you can have enough time in session to address their concerns versus the reactivity.

Somatic Intervention skills are an essential addition to every couple’s and sex therapist’s toolbox. When couples become emotionally charged or shut down it’s because they’re feeling threatened. Their nervous system engages to protect. Skilled, body-based intervention enables the therapeutic process to move forward.

Become equipped to intervene effectively at the first sign that their nervous system is signaling danger is crucial. Body-based therapeutic strategies enable the therapist to help the couple delve more deeply into the sources of distress so that constructive solutions can emerge.

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Outline:

Relationships – The Interaction of two nervous systems

• The Autonomic Nervous System (ANS) as the basis of understanding the dynamics of a couple
• Three principles of the Polyvagal Theory
  • Neuroception – the biology of safety and danger
    • Experiential exercise
  • Three nervous system states and their hierarchy of response
    • Experiential exercise
  • Co-regulation – purpose and meaning
• Implicit memory

The ANS in action in the Couples Therapy Session

• Survival adaptations
• Attachment styles
• Co-morbidities of depression/anxiety/ trauma
• Unique factors specific to sexual difficulties

The Structure a Couples Therapy Session with the ANS in Mind

• Challenges to effective communication
• Beginnings of a session – enhancing safety; techniques for “settling” the nervous system
• Creating a structure in session – why?
• Mapping nervous system response

Once the Conversation Begins

• How to facilitate a conversation between two nervous systems
• The value of mirroring; case ex: Sasha and Lilly
  • Experiential exercise
• Tracking the body for subtle signs of nervous system activation into fight/ flight or emotional shutdown; case ex: Gillian and Steve
• Overwhelm and underwhelm; case ex: Brad and Sara
• Strategies for regulation
  • Experiential exercise

Repair and Healing Inside the Dyadic Relationship

• Using the language of body as a resource for therapeutic inquiry; case ex: Larry and Ben
• Specifics unique to addressing sexual difficulties; case ex: Gina and Dan
• Repairing ruptures in connection
• Memory reconsolidation; case ex: Mark and Alicia
• Finding safe harbor in co-regulation as the path to healing

NLP online course

So what is NLP?
NLP stands for Neuro-Linguistic Programming. Neuro refers to your neurology;
Linguistic refers to language; programming refers to how that neural language functions.
In other words, learning NLP is like learning the language of your own mind!

NLP is the study of excellent communication–both with yourself, and with others.
It was developed by modeling excellent communicators and therapists who got results with their clients.
NLP is a set of tools and techniques, but it is so much more than that.
It is an attitude and a methodology of knowing how to achieve your goals and get results

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Deborah J Fox, MSW, is a Certified Imago Relationship therapist and Certified Sex Therapist in private practice in Washington, DC.  She offers individual, couples, and group psychotherapy, as well as clinical consultation. Deborah conducts seminars and consultation groups on couples therapy and sex therapy. She has presented on these subjects at the Washington School of Psychiatry, the Greater Washington Society of Clinical Social Workers, the Institute for Psychoanalysis and Psychotherapy, and the Integrative Sex Therapy Institute and at the 2018 international Imago Relationship Therapy conference. She has studied Somatic Experiencing and wrote the chapter, The Mind Body Connection: Sex, Couples and Somatic Therapy in Integrative Sex and Couples Therapy, by Tammy Nelson, Phd. She is passionate about taking couples therapy to a deeper emotional level and enabling greater intimacy and satisfaction.

Speaker Disclosures:
Financial: Deborah Fox maintains a private practice. She receives a speaking honorarium from PESI, Inc.
Non-financial: Deborah Fox has no relevant non-financial relationship to disclose.

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