The Sex Starved Couple by Gabrielle Moore
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From the desk of Gabrielle Moore
#1 best-selling author of “The Female Orgasm Revealed”, “Double Her Desire”,
“Hot Licks” (and way too many sex advice books to list here)
Dear Sweetheart,
Excuse me for being blunt, but how often do you still have sex with your lover?
If you have been together for a while and still manage to get intimate at least once a week…Congratulations!
You’re In The Top 15% Of The Population!
If you’re currently getting ALL the red-hot & wild sex you need, then this letter is definitely notfor you. But if you’re feeling sex-starved like more than half of the population out there is… then please read on because I have an exciting discovery to share with you.
According to the National Survey of Sexual Health & Behavior conducted by Indiana University,less than HALF of married men have sex with their lover at least once a week.
Not surprisingly, research also shows that as the time spent in a relationship increases… the frequency of sex…
Actually Decreases!
Have you heard of this old saying?
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“Put a coin in a bottle each time you make love during the first year of marriage… And take a coin out each time you make love every subsequent year… The bottle will never be empty!” |
It’s sad but true!
If you have been together for a while, things certainly don’t seem as hot or playful as they used to. If you’re lucky, your lover may agree to your requests for sex once in a long, long while… But even so, it’s not the same long, passionate romps you had in the early days of your relationship!
For many sex starved couples, sex nowadays is a hurried affair… lasting no more than half an hour to an hour at most… before either party loses interest or gets tired.
If you have children at home, then there is the constant fear of being interrupted (and getting embarrassed), which prevents both parties from going all the way (if you know what I mean…)
Add on to that the tremendous stress from work… or physical exhaustion after a hard day of housework, and you get a pretty good idea of what the sex life of a typical couple is like…
It’s Literally Non-Existent!
Let’s face it. Many couples who have been in a relationship for a while are sex-starved and deprived. Deep down inside they’re craving for some hot, wild sex… but they just don’t know how to get it.
That’s why men in such relationships usually seek the easy way out. They turn to pornography, or even have affairs with people they shouldn’t to satisfy their sexual urges.
It doesn’t get much better for women either. In this country, the statistics of women getting involved in extramarital affairs are on the rise… and cracks usually start to develop in a relationship once a couple doesn’t have enough sex.
Please don’t get me wrong here. I’m not saying that sex is the ONLY important thing in a relationship… but it is indeed the bedrock and foundation of ANY good relationship!
When a couple has quality sex… they’re not just spending intimate time together. The close physical & emotional contact during sex also builds openness and trust in a couple, which is hugely beneficial in any relationship. Couples who have sex regularly are not only happier because their sexual urges are satisfied… they also communicate more freely and are more comfortable with each other.
The reverse is also true! Lack of sex has been found to lead to the following problems in couples:
Health Problems…
Sex not only feels good, it also brings about several important health benefits. Multiple scientific studies worldwide have confirmed the perks of regular love-making – from relieving stress, boosting immunity, improving cardiovascular health, reducing prostate cancer risk to helping one sleep better:
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Stress – According to a study published in the journal Biological Psychology, men and women who had sexual intercourse had better responses to stress than those who engaged in other sexual behavior or abstained. |
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Immunity – Scientists from Wilkes University found that those who have sex frequently have higher levels of immunoglobulin A (IgA) in their blood, an antibody that protects you from getting colds and other infections. |
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Heart attack risks – Contrary to popular belief that sex causes stroke in older men, researchers from England found that having sex twice or more a week reduces the risks of fatal heart attack in men by half! |
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Prostate cancer risk – Australian researchers found that frequent ejaculations reduced the risk of prostate cancer later in life. |
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Sleep – The hormone, oxytocin, released during orgasm promotes sleep. |
Think about all the FREE health benefits you’re missing out on by not getting enough sex!
Or Emotional Pain…
I can’t tell you how many couples have told me their relationship suffered as a result of the lack of sex.
Let’s start with the obvious. When our sexual needs are not satisfied, they do not just disappear. Instead, these sexual urges recur many times during the day… at some of the most inconvenient times! If you have ever tried to concentrate on work but kept getting distracted by all those sexual thoughts that made it SO HARD for you to continue… you know what I mean!
Or perhaps your lover’s disinterest in sex is making you deeply frustrated. You don’t know what’s wrong with her, and secretly wonder if she finds you unattractive. Worst still, you secretly wonder if she is having an affair outside!
You may also blame her for being so conservative and unadventurous in sex, when she turns down your requests for sex and blames you for being so dirty! Or maybe she doesn’t even allow you to touch her, or get intimate with her anymore…
But trust me… no matter how disinterested in sex your lover appears to be…
It Does NOT Mean Her Sexual Desires
Are Totally Gone!
In many cases, she’s still feeling very, very horny deep down inside… and doesn’t know what to do about it!
It’s natural for human beings to have sexual urges… and that includes your lover! Just because you haven’t had sex with your lover for a long time doesn’t mean her sexual feelings are totally gone.
As I’ve said so many times, the reverse is often true. Something that previously happened in your relationship or long periods of non-communication could have caused her to hide her true feelings… for fear of getting hurt once again.
Or maybe she is feeling insecure about her own body after years of being in a relationship… and feels conscious about exposing herself to you sexually.
Whatever it is, there are many reasons why your lover may not want to talk about sex… But here’s the good news:
You Can Start To Change Things
And Make Sex A Regular Affair… At Any Age!
Think back to the early days of your relationship. Chances are, both of you would have pounced at every single chance to be intimate. Even simple dinner outings or a walk in the park became something kinky… as you slipped your hands under her skirt…
But somewhere along the way… things started to change. As the relationship took its toil and the years went by… both of you started becoming less physical and intimate. Eventually, you hardly touch each other anymore! You hardly even spend time locked in a passionate embrace, much less havehot, wild sex with each other!
I’m telling you this to let you realize that things CAN change. Your relationship wasn’t always like this. It wasn’t always sex-starved. If you think back to the beginning of your relationship… there would be a certain point in time when sex was a regular affair… and you enjoyed every single minute of it!
How would you like to bring some of that naughty back?
How would it feel like… if hot and wild sex is once again a regular part of your relationship?
Impossible… you say? Not so, according to the hundreds of thousands of men and women who have benefited from my sex advice. You see, just as your relationship did not deteriorate and reach this stage overnight… you can’t expect things to get better overnight.
But if you make the effort to follow my simple, proven steps to revitalize and reignite your sex life…
Regular, Hot Sex Can Become
A Reality For You!
And trust me, when it comes to teaching couples how to go from love-dead relationships to having hot sex… no one knows it better than me.
Here’s a little blurb my publisher wrote about me:
Who Is Gabrielle Moore & How Can She
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You may be wondering, “Gabrielle, with a life story that reads like yours… No wonder you can get hot sex!”
But things weren’t always this way. It may surprise you, but I once was in a sex-starved relationship. A few years into my marriage, the shine started coming off things and very soon… our love life was down in the dumps.
My husband couldn’t understand why I suddenly lost interest in sex either. It was as if all the energy was sucked out of me, and I felt irritated by his constant demands for sex after a long day. Eventually, we just stopped getting intimate with one another… each withdrawing into our own world.
Apart from sleeping on the same bed each night, there was very little interaction between us. We started talking less, and quarrels became a regular affair as we blamed each other for the sorry state of our relationship.
To cut a long story short, my frustration drove me to look for answers. The changes didn’t just happen overnight, but I realized that in order to save our marriage… one party had to take the initiative to change.
I just couldn’t sit by and watch my marriage come apart!
With that, I started reading every single book about love and relationships I could get my hands on. I started trying out the techniques in these books with my husband… who fortunately was receptive! With much effort on both our parts, we were able to salvage our marriage and make sex a regular affair once again!
If there’s anything I learnt from this unhappy episode in my life, it’s that one party must first take the initiative to change. Things don’t automatically get better if you ignore your problems… or pretend they don’t exist.
I’m almost ashamed to admit that there were so many times I felt like straying… especially when men outside my relationship were constantly dropping me signals! My husband later admitted that the temptation was unbearable for him as well.
Don’t make the same mistake as we did in the early days…
The Lack Of Sex Is A Red Flag
That Something Is Wrong With Your Relationship!
Please… don’t make the mistake of pretending that everything is fine, or that things will soon become better. Relationship problems don’t just disappear because you pretend everything is alright. In fact, the lack of sex may point to deeper issues within your relationship that need to be addressed right now.
Over the years, I’ve met many men who have lost all hope in their relationships. They don’t think it’s possible for them to get intimate with their lovers again. They don’t think hot regular sex can become a reality for them… and they’re half right!
Hot, regular sex cannot be a reality for you if you are not willing to change. But if you’re willing to take a few simple steps to reverse the downward trend of a relationship… things can become better starting tonight!
Let me guide and show you how to make DIRTY sex a reality in your relationship!
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As you may know, I’m the author of numerous best-selling books & courses on having better sex. I’ve written about almost every sex topic imaginable… ranging from red-hot oral sex techniquesto liquid female orgasms.
Despite writing all these popular courses and receiving glowing testimonials about how I have changed people’s lives… something still bothered me. No matter how simply I explain a particular sex technique or method, there is still a group of men who can’t put it into action.
They would write to me, saying… “Gabrielle, all your methods work if I’m already having sex with my lover. But my lover doesn’t even allow me to touch or get close to her nowadays… What should I do? How can I even get started?
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